Its gonna be just me from now on....

[mike hayward]

Hi All

Unfortuantly the wife and I after being together about 8 years and married just over 1 are going to be seperating, i am most upset about it but there are many reason's as to why which i won't post in too much detail, but mainly money and her ambition to want to go out and live a fruitfull life rather than stick to comitments and responabilties.

Anyway over the next month i will be moving back to my parents for temporary and concentrating on sorting some serious money problems she has left me with and caused me over the years.

I'm quite looking forward to actually having some of my own hard earned for once to which i intend to sort some more things on my Turbo



mike

[Benn]

sorry to hear that dude,
hope your ok,
ben

[Tom Williams]

Mike

So sorry to read that mate, gutted in fact for you.

Hope things go ok over the next few months!!

You know where I am if you need to talk!!

Tom

[chip]

I dont remebmer posting this, but its exactly about my own life so i must have done lmao


Seriously mike, seems to be the common theme these days, its weird years ago it used to be blokes that werent into commitment but now its almost always the other way around.


Living at home ****ing rocks, mums cooking, dad on hand to help out with cars, no bills.


Gutted it didnt work out for you as obviously we all know that you were very much in love at one point (possibly still are for that matter!) but whatever you do dont sit there and go through all the "what ifs" etc.

Im sure you have lots of good mates around who are far more use to you than i could be, but if you ever need to chat or anything, you know where i am mate.


Chin up old boy

[mike hayward]

cheers peeps

Those close to me i.e friends will be aware of the situation and what its become and i do believe its for the better.

mike

[wayne451]

Sorry to hear that chief! Was nice to have met you both at Billing! Seems to big a lot of these type of things cropping up recently on here, it must be a Mig curse type thing!

Looks like her Corsa aint getting another engine then!

At least you seem to have a 'silver-ish lining' type outlook on it! Its always a sad situation, especially if its 8 years!

[chip]

Sometimes birds are like cars, they start out fine, but end up so rotten underneath you are better of scrapping them and getting a new one.

Breaks your heart when its a project car you put a lot of time and effort into of course, especially if despite the rot it still rides nice, but thats life.



Nail a chavvy slut for a few months to take your mind off things, then settle down as being single for a while and work out what YOU want mate

[Tom Williams]

wise words chip, totally agree, being single sucks for a short while, then after a while things turn great and life begins again and your busy all the time and life doesnt seem so bad afterall!!

[chip]

wise words chip, totally agree, being single sucks for a short while, then after a while things turn great and life begins again and your busy all the time and life doesnt seem so bad afterall!!

Plus (well in my case) you nail a whole load of birds a decade and a half younger than you

[mike hayward]

Plus (well in my case) you nail a whole load of birds a decade and a half younger than you

Mate thats not hard in your case is it! lmao



Mike

[chip]

Mate thats not hard in your case is it! lmao



Mike

LOL

Well im 31 now, so decade and a half is legal, just.


I have now ****ed one or more birds born in each of the following decades:
1960s
1970s
1980s
1990s


Going to be at least 10 years till i add another decade to that now unless i start dating birds in their fifties lmao



Joking aside though hope you are coping with it better than i did the first time it happened to me with someone i really loved, i was in ****ing pieces and crying myself to sleep and all sorts after we broke up!

[sbd16vastra]

sorry to hear this

[Adam]

jshh mike m8 wont say sorry to hear as u decided its for the best so wanna keep positive here so ring me if u want to listen to shagging sheep etc

[MSG]

Keep your fingers cross Mike, you both are parting on good terms, indeed you appear to be thinking of her highly and I am shure she has the same feelings, though sad that she wants it her own way. But who knows soon you may be together again, I am sure she will still be ringing you every now and again " Hellow Mike ! what you doing to night ! fancy a night out at the Savoy" and Mike is not going to say let me think, Mike you will be saying shure honey! love it.

[chip]

Keep your fingers cross Mike, you both are parting on good terms, indeed you appear to be thinking of her highly and I am shure she has the same feelings, though sad that she wants it her own way. But who knows soon you may be together again, I am sure she will still be ringing you every now and again " Hellow Mike ! what you doing to night ! fancy a night out at the Savoy" and Mike is not going to say let me think, Mike you will be saying shure honey! love it.

If he does that, he will probably never get over her and end up hurting for years.

Thats what happened to me anyway lmao

[Brett]

Sorry to hear this Mike. Take time out and just enjoy being your own man doing what you want when you want, no sorting things out around someone else's life too. If you find your dwelling on it, try and keep busy as much as you can.

[LEE69]

Sorry to hear it mate,thought you were for life tbh.
Keep your chin up

[Andy K]

I'm sorry to hear that Mike.

Hope you sort it out for the best.

[mike hayward]

Thanks everyone.

jshh mike m8 wont say sorry to hear as u decided its for the best so wanna keep positive here so ring me if u want to listen to shagging sheep etc

Just for the record it was no choice of mine but i had figured it was coming.
Yes i'm hurting deep down and i'm sure things will improve, kinda setting in now as i've been sorting my stuff out and started moving, not seen soz since friday apart from an hour on saturday that is, she is staying at various friends places and i think trying to get away from problems rather than face them, and leaving me with no money as i pay all the bills which leaves me skintola every month

I am looking forward to doing what i want and actually having some of my own hard earned will be a novelity! quite a bit by all accounts!

who knows i'll probably be under someones car somewhere trying to take my mind off maters.

mike

[chip]

It will be good for you to get home where you arent lonely i expect Mike.

When me and cally split up i was finding it very depressing being in our home full of our memories all on my own, definately not good for your state of mind!

Keeping occupied is the most important thing so you arent thinking about her the whole time.

Dont underestimate the power of a chav slut to rebound onto

[mike hayward]

lol - chip

Gotta be a nit sensible as i'm technically still married chap!

mike

[rhydgte]

Sounds exactly same boat as I'm in but we've not split up yet..

But at the rate it's going it won't be long..

I'm in loads of debt thanks to her and yet she's not satisfied at all, It's always about money with them isn't it..

Good luck mate and well done for having more bottle than me and ending it all

[mike hayward]

It wasn't my choice dont forget! she wanted to have fun, act her age, enjoy life basically anything without worry and comitment

mike

[Jay cossie]

LOL

Well im 31 now, so decade and a half is legal, just.


I have now ****ed one or more birds born in each of the following decades:
1960s
1970s
1980s
1990s

I take my hat off to you sir!

[chip]

Mike, the pretty ones are nearly all a nightamre.

life is just too eacsy for a good looking bird when she has loads of blokes trying to buy her stuff and take her places etc, why would she want to settle down with one person when she can getting the best of all workds with lots of blokes.


You want a happy marriage? have an ugly bride!


Im not saying that zero % of pretty teenage girls get with one bloke and settle but its a figure VERY close to that!