How do you find someone.........

stevenwoody · 12-11-2008, 19:10

How do you find someone that doesn't want to be found???

The reason i ask is i have just started seeing a new girlie but her ex is sending stupid txts begging for her back etc (he is a proper prick) Anyway she told him she was seeing someone and he kicked off sending death threats etc tbh im not bothered by the threats its the fact she is really upset by it so im trying to find him to have a gentle word in his ear!!! But the problem is the address he gave her doesn't exist and i mean physically exist and everyone i know has never heard of him!! what can i do???

**jamied** · 12-11-2008, 19:12

tell the police mate...he will be stuffed with a criminal record

EY · 12-11-2008, 19:14

Phone book, electoral register?

**Lugy** · 12-11-2008, 19:16

Sorry, I couldn't resist

Keep a note of the number and get on to the Police.

Allvaux · 12-11-2008, 22:19

Get your bird to leave it a week or two then send him a message saying she's made a mistake and can they start again. She arranges to meet him, you turn up, a bit of f and b ensues and my laddo gets the message.

Frisco · 13-11-2008, 00:12

Tell the police and exagerate how serious you took it saying you fear for your life and all that. They will take it pretty seriously

Beenie · 13-11-2008, 02:43

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allvaux

Get your bird to leave it a week or two then send him a message saying she's made a mistake and can they start again. She arranges to meet him, you turn up, a bit of f and b ensues and my laddo gets the message.

awesome!!!!

but really your first port of call should be the fuzz, if she still keeps getting txts go have a few words.

Ed · 14-11-2008, 12:19

Just ignore it. The pathetic prick will never actually do anything. And if he does make good on his promise and try to kill you, then he will have to reveal himself, so you get what you want.

Unless he secretly poisons you, or uses a sniper rifle.

TINTIN · 14-11-2008, 12:25

Sounds as though he's just gutted that he's **** out and is now venting his anger. As already said, if he appears then its a win win situation

rudd86 · 14-11-2008, 12:26

or pays someone to do the job for him...

Ed · 14-11-2008, 12:36

Can there be anything more desperate than begging a girl to come back to you, and then threatening to go as far as killing her new boyfriend. Get a life.

I've known a lot of knobs like this. It never comes to anything. Best just ignored.

rodgerq · 14-11-2008, 12:39

i vote ignore aswell. the guy's just hurting

rodgerq

stevenwoody · 14-11-2008, 13:05

Cheers guys

he just proper wound me up the other night!!! so far so good tho he hasn't sent her anymore txt messages and he still hasn't a clue who i am and the fact none of her friends that have met him like him is a bonus for me as they won't squeal

Frisco · 14-11-2008, 14:44

It upsets her though and i dont see why he suould be allowed get away with it. Fair enough if she didn't care either but she does.
Tell the police.

stevenwoody · 14-11-2008, 14:46

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Originally Posted by Frisco

It upsets her though and i dont see why he suould be allowed get away with it. Fair enough if she didn't care either but she does.
Tell the police.

See your point on that one its just if she wants to go down that route tbh im not going to push into something she don't want to do

Frisco · 14-11-2008, 14:54

Thats fair enough, im sure there would be a lot of crap to go through with a police report for it too.

OHC · 14-11-2008, 15:07

there is/was a way to find people by doing a reverse phone number search and it used to work for mobiles as well but only if the person had registered there mobile, i don't know if it still works or if it's legal but google will provide you with some helpful stuff

**CraigGreen** · 14-11-2008, 15:47

@ tell the POLICE.

Excuse me officer, my GF's ex keeps sending her unwanted texts!

Can you imagine a police officer that would actually not laugh?

Frisco · 14-11-2008, 17:38

Did you miss the death threats bit then?

phazer · 14-11-2008, 22:51

It's the death threats that will cause the Police to take notice - it's an absolute criminal offence. If you report it but say I just want it noted for future they will still take it further as they have a duty knowing an offence was commited.

For unwanted texts in order to take it further and get some action if they get worse you have to have made repeated complaints to the police and your mobile provider...